What is success? How do you define success? These are great questions. One afternoon, one of my fifth graders boldly stated that he would never be successful. I asked him why. He said he didn’t have a special talent or money so he just couldn’t be a success. The class stopped what we were doing and headed to the carpet (that is our “thinkin’ spot”). While on the carpet, we talked about what makes a person successful and how do you determine success. We then listed people that we thought were successful. Several names popped out of their mouths. Most of the kids talked about actors, actresses, singers, and sports stars. “What about politicians or business people?” I asked. They decided that, yes, those people should be listed too. “What about people who can provide for their families but don’t have the recognition that famous people have?” I mentioned. We all agreed that those people should be considered successful as well. One student spoke up, “I wish we could just ask successful people what it takes to be successful and what they consider a success.” Ahh, a teaching opportunity!
I asked the kids to go home, sit down with their parents, and list five people they think are successful. The following day we made a list. The list included actors like Roseanne, Matthew McConaughey, Jeff Foxworthy, Bob Newhart, Dustin Hoffman, Alec Baldwin, Kate Winslet, and Robert Duvall. The list also had political figures like George W. Bush, John McCain, and Tony Blair. On the whiteboard, we had Jay-Z, Pat Sajak, Dick Butkus, Bob Schieffer, Robin Roberts, and Warren Buffett. In total, we had roughly 30 names listed. Students were drawn randomly to pick a name from the board. It was now their job to study this person and learn all they could. While the students were busy studying their successful person, I started the task of finding out how to get in contact with them. This was no easy feat.
A few days after the students researched their successful person, I told them that they would be writing them a letter. I told them that they had to write about what they learned about their person and that it was important they ask the two questions that we discussed just days prior – what makes a person successful and how do you define success? The students got busy writing. After a few rough drafts, the students felt confident mailing them out. We were shocked as to what happened next!
A few weeks after the letters were mailed out, a Fed Ex guy came to my classroom door. He had an overnight delivery that had to be signed by one of my students. My student got up from his desk and signed for the package. It was a handwritten letter from his successful person as well as some memorabilia. The class was shocked! A few days later more letters started trickling in. All of the letters were hand written and answered all of their questions. Students started asking me if they could write back. “Absolutely!” I exclaimed! Soon, students started to become pen pals with these people! One student was flown down to Detroit to see their successful person perform at Fox Theatre. Another student wrote back and forth to their person a few times over the course of the school year. At one point, she mentioned her parents financial struggles. About three weeks later, the bank called her parents to say their mortgage had been paid in full! Not only were these kids learning about success, they were learning about decency as well. Every student received a personal response. Well, all except for one.
Nick patiently waited every day for the mail to come to the school. And, every day, a letter would not be addressed to him. His successful person was Dustin Hoffman. I tried to explain that Dustin Hoffman was extremely busy and maybe he should pick someone different. “No, ” he said. “I want to wait to see what happens.” After a few more weeks, Nick decided to give up. He really wanted to wait on Dustin Hoffman but also wanted to start building a personal correspondence with someone who would be willing to write back.
Two days after Nick started researching his next person, we were in the middle of math class when the intercom came on. “Mr. Hall, is Nick available?” the voice blared over the silver speaker. “He is in the middle of math right now. Can this wait?” I responded. “No,” she said with a chuckle. “It can’t. Dustin Hoffman is on the phone and would like to speak with Nick.” The class grew quiet and then we roared in excitement. Everyone in the class wanted to hear Dustin Hoffman. I told the office to put him on hold (seriously, put Dustin Hoffman on hold!?) and we rushed to the office. While we gathered around the only phone in the school that had a speaker, Nick calmly pressed the button. “Hello. This is Nick.” he said. “Hi Nick, this is Dustin Hoffman.” The class cheered! For FORTY-FIVE minutes, Nick and his classmates were able to ask Dustin Hoffman anything they wanted. He was amazing! He patiently answered all of their questions but, most important, he wanted to learn about Nick. He asked Nick all about his family, his town, and his interests. In fact, I don’t think Mr. Hoffman wanted to hang up. After saying their goodbyes, Nick hung up the phone, hugged his fellow classmates, and walked back to his class chatting about his experience.
I knew that Nick felt like a success that day.

















